You have probably seen at least one porn movie or a clip where the performers are tying themselves to the bed and then indulge in the sum-dom intercourse. Or, you have probably seen that movie ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ where the main characters are enjoying their secret games in the sex dungeon. 

Now, you don’t have to have a dungeon or be some broody mysterious guy or gal to show interest in this whole bondage thing. In fact, you don’t even have to have this fetish to feel like trying out this thing. Bondage or erotic restraint can be a great way to spice things up in the bedroom. If you are feeling that things are getting a bit predictable and both of you are a bit bored, maybe it’s time to take some new action. 

What Is Bondage?

Bondage includes tying, ropes, cuffs and stuff like that. Maybe you always thought that it’s something that people who are into BDSM do, but you don’t have to necessarily have this fetish to try bondage.  B in BDSM includes consensually restraining, tying, or binding a partner for erotic, aesthetic or tactile stimulation. 

You might have tried sex toys or other erotic games with your partner, but if you feel like trying erotic restraint, you will first need to talk to them about it. Bondage became especially popular after ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ when people instantly wanted to see what’s the fuss all about. Now, this isn’t something that everyone will accept, so be sure to respect your partner’s wishes. 

Why You Should Use Erotic Restraint In Your Bedroom?

No, you don’t have to include all the hardcore ropes and chains in the bedroom. Bondage restraint can be something as small as furry cuffs or a silky rope that you’ll use to tie each other. Trying it in the bedroom can light new sparkles, especially if things were getting a little dull. Now, you might say that your intimate life with your partner is great, but some couples who have been together for a long time may want to keep that fire going. 

Try it With Someone You Trust

Being tied puts you in a vulnerable situation. This is why you should always try it with a person you trust. It can be your spouse or long-term emotional partner, or a sex partner you know long enough to trust them. Trying it with a stranger is not forbidden, but chances are you won’t able to fully relax and enjoy it because you will be on the edge constantly. 

One night stands aren’t the best option for this sexy experiment. Feeling completely safe, protected and relaxed is the key to go into something like this. After a while, you know your partner’s body, know what they want, how much they can go and know when to stop or continue. With a new partner this may not be as easy, no matter how liberated and inhibition-free you are in the bedroom.

Start Simple

If you’re new to this you can start with simple toys. You don’t have to invest in an entire BDSM dungeon (let’s be realistic most people don’t have that much space in their homes). You can always get something small to add some kink to your sex life. You would be surprised to see that something small like bondage restraint or cuffs can change the entire experience for you and make things as exciting and hot as they used to be at the beginning.

Cuffs, Ropes, Bed Binding Restraining Kit

Tying your partner’s hands with cuffs and prohibiting them the pleasure to touch you will emphasize the excitement. They will only be able to feel whatever you do to them and see you. The tension will build up and it will surely add to the excitement on both sides. You can also try a rope and have your or your partner’s limbs tied to the bed. Go for ropes that have comfortable cuffs for the wrist and ankles, because the last thing you want is to have marks on these parts of your body. 

Maybe you would want to get a restraining kit and not bother with knots and ropes. This way you can strap your partner down to the bed and turn them into a sub who is at your mercy. If this is both your and your partner’s thing, the kit will help you turn the night into a delightful ecstasy. These kits are specially equipped with buckles to allow you various adjustments so that both of you can choose what feels comfortable and safe.